It’s Five Minute Friday! Today’s prompt is “Friends”. This one is a fave. Would love to hear about your best friend!
Writing about “friends” is risky. You could leave that special someone out of your post and offend them. You could not include a family member and face “the look” for the next ten Thanksgiving holidays.
If you choose one of your children…well…I think you know where that would get you.
Of course you would expect me to write about Jesus! I do that several times each week and He definitely is ALWAYS there for me. He never lets me down, never offends me, and never forsakes me, no matter how many mistakes I make.
This other friend has been there for me for 38 years.
Day in.
Day out.
And he definitely is not God.
A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still gently allows you to grow.
That’s from Shakespeare. He nailed it.
We were kids when we met. Then we were friends. Quickly we became boyfriend and girlfriend.
[Tweet ““I like you. Do you like me? Check this box.””]
Okay, we were a little too old for that but since this was the age before texting, we did have to rely on notes.
We left them everywhere. Since we were in high school together for one year, we would leave them in each other’s lockers in between classes. Highlight of my day was to see a folded up smidgeon of a note sticking out of the vents in my locker!
I would find them dropped through the window of my 1971 Nova (Yeah, be jealous).
I would leave them inside of his 1977 Firethorn Red Camaro (Okay, NOW you can be jealous).
Then of course there was snail mail.
These “love letters” were not things we couldn’t say face to face. But since we didn’t see each other every minute of the day, or even every day, they were the avenue to keep in touch.
We couldn’t wait to be together, we always had so much to talk about. To plan. To dream.
This man has always accepted me for what I am, encouraged me in everything I have ever attempted, and loved me in spite of my plethora of flaws.
We have been through LIFE together.
Shared the joy, heartache and memories of helping grow Our Three Sons and the blessing of a beautiful daughter-in-law, who has been a part of our family for so long we cannot imagine life before Rachel.
Thirty eight years later we are together every day.
All day.
24/7.
365.
Together.
We’ve changed. ALOT. And yet we are still the same.
Come July we will celebrate 35 years of marriage. The 38 includes ALL of our togetherness! Now that we have entered the Empty Nest, it’s back to the two of us again. It’s not so bad, really. This love is what made a lifetime of memories for us and gave life and meaning to three others. We started out as friends. It’s a good thing to go back to.
Think I will go write a note, find someplace to hide it and surprise my friend.
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