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Welcome to Haiti, Jesus loves you

We made it to Haiti and I have wifi!! Woo hoo! 

Thank you all so much for your prayers yesterday. We had a great trip, no travel issues. Except when the pilot came on the intercom in Miami, after a 20 minute wait, to tell us that he thought the mechanic thought the problem was fixed and he agreed so we were going to take off. Yes, I felt so much better. (smile)

We arrived in Port au Prince around noon and the resident missionaries, The Brian’s, took us to the nicest place for lunch. They wanted us to know on the way that this restaurant was not the norm and that was evident as we drove down the highway. But we were thankful for a nice meal, wonderful service and a beautiful outdoor venue complete with a pool and palm trees.

Then reality hit as we stopped by our first orphanage. As soon as Pastor Brian’s vehicle pulled up, children began pouring out of the complex. We couldn’t even get inside the gate due to the hugs and literal clinging to each one of us. My friend Bonnie Beecham, who were are blessed to get to do this trip with, just wanted to see her kids. And you could hear them all hollering her name, “Bonay! Bonay! Bonay!” It was heartbreaking and heartwarming all at the same time.

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The children were fascinated with my youngest, Korey, who has let his hair grow, just a touch, over the last few months. Korey is not normally a touchy-feeling person but you get over that quick here.

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His heart was captured in the first few minutes as was my middle son, Kristopher. The children were fascinated that they were my sons. You? Mama? Him? Papa? Ha, ha, ha…so cute.

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At Felix’s orphanage, the children received new flip flops that Pastor David and Bonnie Beecham had brought with them from Tennessee. Hanging on to their shoes and to us, I tried to help them unwrap the cellophane to get to their new shoes but every one of them would shake their head negatively and smile and say something I didn’t understand. Finally, Pastor Brian’s wife, Terri, explained that they wanted to wash their feet first, before they put on new shoes. (tears!)

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Here they are singing, and playing with Korey’s hair.

From there we stopped by one other orphanage before reaching the missionary compound. By now it was dark, there was no electricity, we relied on our phones to even see our way inside. But, again, we could hardly get out of the car for the swarm of children yelling the Brian’s name and David and Bonnie (Bonay!)

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There were a couple of young teenage boys who could speak a little English and they wanted to know my name and then my age. When I said, “54”, they laughed and said that would be my name, just 54. Ha. Ha. Ha. Just how I wanted to be known.

One witty little boy, he was 12, when asked my name and I said, “Nannette” then said back, “Watch me whip, watch me Nan-nette!” Quoting the popular song, “Watch Me Nae Nae” (which I have never understood, ha). But he was quick on his feet!

Before we left, one of the young boys pulled on my arm and said, “Jesus Loves You” and I said, “Yes, He does and He loves you too!” We didn’t bring gifts to that orphanage right then (they are coming to the compound today for a field day of sorts) all we brought was ourselves and plenty of hugs to go around. They were starving for that attention, that touch, that personal affection.

That’s all I could think of the rest of the evening and in our sharing time with the missionaries we talked about how they have absolutely nothing here, nothing to look forward to for many, nothing to eat, sometimes no shoes to wear, but they are starving even more for love.

And they are not much different than the people you see every day that need love, attention, someone to just say they care. God’s love is unconditional, agape love and ours should be too. He doesn’t care what we look like, how much money we have or what we can give back to Him. He just loves us.

That’s all anyone needs today in this unsure world.

Jesus loves you. Would you tell somebody today? Would you reach out and touch the hand (if appropriate) of one that is suffering or hurting and let them know you care and that Jesus cares even more? Would you offer them agape love and share the Gospel, the Good News, of Jesus Christ? You will change a life and they won’t forget that touch.

Keep pus in your prayers today as we open up the missions compound here and 135 children descend upon us! There will be peanut butter sandwiches in the morning and hot dogs and all the trimmings this afternoon. Soccer, basketball, any other games they want to play. Korey and Kristopher will be exhausted for sure.

Pray that we can show them love, that they feel the presence of God, that they know they are safe. Even if for a little while.

(These last two pictures are of them surrounding the vehicle as we left. Knocking on my window and waving “Goodbye!” was just about more than I could take.)

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All for a cup of water

Continuing our series on David’s Mighty Men today. Click on their titles to read the first one, Frozen to the Sword and yesterday’s But Shammah took his stand.

All for a cup of water

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.  ~Ambrose Redmoon

“These are the names of the mighty men whom David had:  Josheb-basshebeth a Tahchemonite; he was chief of the three. He wielded his spear against eight hundred whom he killed at one time.” 2 Samuel 23:8

“And this is the number of the mighty men whom David had: Jashobeam, the son of a Hachmonite, the chief of the thirty; he lifted up his spear against three hundred and slew them at one time.” 1 Chronicles 11:11

Josheb-basshebeth or Jashobeam (much easier to pronounce!), we are talking about the same person here, chief of The Three, David’s elite warriors.

There is no contradiction here in the two verses. Even the difference in names could easily be a nickname, or as we have middle names today and it could be just a variation of his name. Obviously, here in the two passages there is a huge difference in the number that he defeated, ahem, killed in battle. In 1 Chronicles it mentions he lifted up his spear to defend himself and killed 300 and in 2 Samuel it says he killed 800 at one time. Assuming these are two different instances, Jashobeam was certainly a fearless and mighty man. He wasn’t afraid to take on something bigger than himself.

If you thought that Eleazar, Shammah and Jashobeam were fearless on their own, look at what they did when they got together!

“During harvest time, three of the thirty chief men came down to David at the cave of Adullam, while a band of Philistines was encamped in the Valley of Rephaim. At that time David was in the stronghold, and the Philistine garrison was at Bethlehem. David longed for water and said, “Oh, that someone would get me a drink of water from the well near the gate of Bethlehem!” 2 Samuel 23:14-15.

This story is just amazing on so many levels. David and his Mighty Men were at the cave of Adullam and the Philistines were camping in the Valley of Rephaim. The Philistines had a garrison, or a permanent military post, inside the walled city of Bethlehem, the City of David.

David was battle-weary and so were his men. He was ready for the fighting to be over and in his state of exhaustion just uttered the words, “Oh, that someone would get me a drink of water from the well near the gate of Bethlehem!” He longed for the water from the well of his youth; he could almost taste it. But it wasn’t just the water that he was longing for; his statement was displaying how he wished for the battle itself to come to an end. The running, the hiding, the fighting had taken a toll on him and his men.

David didn’t command for someone to get him the water, he didn’t even ask, he knew it was impossible; it was just something he said, possibly just in a sigh of weariness. But Mighty Men don’t just sit around waiting for things to happen, they MAKE them happen and one of them, or all three, heard their king say he was thirsty and that was all it took.

Now picture this, Eleazar, Shammah and Jashobeam had to travel 12 miles to get this water! They had to break through the lines of the enemy to do it but they didn’t even think twice, they were on their way.

Risking their lives for a drink of water?

Oswald Sanders is credited for saying, “Courage is that quality of mind which enables men to encounter danger or difficulty with firmness. The highest degree of courage is seen in the person who is most fearful but refuses to give in to it.”

They weren’t doing it for the water, they were doing it for their king.

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The Three were committed, they believed in their leader and if he wanted water they would get it. If he had uttered that he wanted steak on a plate? They would have gotten that too! They were all about unity and selflessness. It wasn’t about them, it was about one who was in need at the time.

So they accomplished the task and brought back the water for David. Now here is the interesting part: David will not drink it! “So the three mighty men broke through the Philistine lines, drew water from the well near the gate of Bethlehem and carried it back to David. But he refused to drink it; instead, he poured it out before the LORD. “Far be it from me, O LORD, to do this!” he said. “Is it not the blood of men who went at the risk of their lives?” And David would not drink it.”

Their act of bravery, of putting him first before their own lives so overwhelmed him that he cannot bring himself to even taste the water that he has longed for! He honored their sacrifice with his own by pouring it out as an offering to the Lord.

In a culture of selfies and so focused on what we see in the mirror, would we risk our lives to bring a cup of water to someone in need?

Risk Our Lives? Unity in the Body of Christ will bring about this type of sacrifice for others.

This is the picture of The Mighty Men of yesterday and of today; those that will risk their lives so that others might find deliverance from their pain and suffering here in this life and in the eternal one to come. This is the picture of those that want to give back to the One who gave so much.

What can YOU do today to be a Mighty Man or Woman of God to someone around you? Can we pray this prayer together? Lord Jesus, please make me sensitive to the needs of others around me that I might be willing to go the extra mile for their salvation. Send me to someone that is thirsty that I may offer them Living Water that only comes from You. In the Name above all Names, Jesus Christ. Amen.

When saying “Yes” just might change your life

#FiveMinuteFriday, friends! Today’s word prompt is YES. I want to introduce you to a friend that said those words and they have not just changed her life but also those around her. Be blessed!

When saying “Yes” just might change your life!

I have a friend. A very good friend.

This friend was doing great things for God. A pastor’s wife and mother, she was fulfilling the call of God in her life, content with her place in the background…serving.

She wasn’t one to jump out of her comfort zone. She didn’t like to travel, avoided airplanes like the plague and preferred to stay home, at her own church, behind the piano or teaching Sunday School.

Then God called. Much like young Samuel, she thought He surely didn’t mean her. (You can read Samuel’s story here!) God wanted her to come out of that comfort zone for a bigger purpose, to touch even more lives, to reach out further than she thought she ever could.

He wanted her to go to the orphanages of Haiti.

Haiti! Her husband had already been and she was content to help pack his bags and pray over him while he was gone. But go with him? To a third-world country? Get dirty and love on children that she didn’t even know?

Not me, Lord. I just cannot. It’s great for others, I will pray for them, I will give, I will do anything but GO.

God wasn’t asking this couple to give up their church permanently, He wanted them to bring blessing, to uplift the missionaries and encourage the entire village just by saying, “Yes.”

She went the first time. Hesitant, nervous and down-right scared to death but she went.

She has been going back several times a year for the last three years.

She has a special focus for each of her journeys, whether it is building a new kitchen and pantry, bringing shoes, food, clothing, whatever the need is at the time, she will begin a campaign in her hometown and on social media to get others involved in the giving. Her own small town has caught the vision and many participate to help her with her projects, as she calls them.

Her heart is with the children. Their church’s motto is LOVE, LIVE, SERVE! (appropriately!)

So many have been displaced because of the last devastating earthquake and have been left without a family. The need is great. Her pictures tell it all. She is still a great pastor’s wife. She still teaches Sunday School. She still can sing and play like nobody’s business and bring the house down. But she has found her calling; God has opened up a whole new world to her in a place that many would refuse to go. She said, “Yes, Lord” and it literally changed her life, her family’s, her church and her community!

Their ministry to children is not limited to Haiti. They bring them in by the bus, van and car-loads to church every week. And during the weekdays? You can find my friend packing lunches and taking them to neighborhoods where the kids might not get something decent to eat. But she doesn’t just drop them off and run. Many times she stays and eats with the kids, forming bonds that just cannot be broken.

In a few weeks I will board a plane with this lady I have called “friend” for over 20 years. She wants me to meet her kids and see this place that means so much to her. I have been overseas many times but never to a third-world country, that’s what I thought Haiti was. But as you will see in the video below, Haiti is actually considered a FIFTH-world country. This is definitely out of my comfort zone and even though I am a little nervous I said, “Yes” because we only live once and it is a short time we have here on this earth to make a difference and to be a blessing. I have a feeling I will be the one blessed by these precious people and the children who just want to be loved.

It might not be an overseas mission; it could be your neighbor that He has been nudging you to speak to, a friend, co-worker, even a family member that is hungry for God even if you think that is not possible.  God could be working in their hearts and is wanting you to be the one to bring His message of Hope. Whatever it is He is calling you to, saying “yes” will forever change your life and open up even more opportunities to be used of God.

Just ask my friend, Bonnie.

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Enjoy this amazing video of David and Bonnie Beecham, The Brian’s (Missionaries to Haiti) and those that have caught the vision. (If you want to help Love Live Serve, contact me ynannette@gmail.com and I will get you connected.)

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