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Day 19: A Story From My Childhood…

Sweet Jenni at www.storyofmylifetheblog.blogspot.com issued a fun challenge to bloggers to blog Every Single Day in May and she supplied the topics for all 31 days. Yep, I’m behind, but there are no rules, and no blog police come knocking if you miss, skip, or mess up. So, hey, I’m in!

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Day 19, Sunday: I’m a little behind again so I have chosen Saturday’s topic:  Tell a story from your childhood. Dig deep and try to be descriptive about what you remember and how you felt.

Caution: This story is not for those with a weak stomach. You have been warned!

I simply loved to stay at my grandmother’s house when I was little. My sister and I would live over there if Mom would let us. Mamaw Cammie, to put it simply, spoiled us rotten. She wasn’t wealthy by any means. Her house included a separate “smoke house” which she used for storage and from my memory she did her ironing out there. She taught us girls to iron, practicing on our grandfather’s handkerchiefs. She always had a Coke bottle filled with water and a red rosette on the top with holes in it for sprinkling the clothes. Oh, the memories…

We played dress up! I have no idea where she got all of those neat dresses! But I believe she would have let us wear Cinderella’s ball gown if she could have gotten her hands on it.

We hosted the original Rachael Ray’s kitchen. No, really we did. We had our own line of Tupperware; we would set the table for tea, and prepare our gourmet meal and call our special guests to the table. Mamaw and Papaw never complained about the empty cups and saucers. They complimented the meal as if Julia Child herself had prepared it.

We loved to play outside. I could sit on the bank all day in the springtime. Mamaw had the longest row of peonies I had ever seen! To this day I cannot pass a peony bush without thinking of her. I must stop and touch it, take the beautiful, soft bloom in my hand and drink in the fragrant remembrance of long ago.

Every day was carefree and every night was something to look forward to…sleeping in the big bed with Mamaw Cammie! One special night when I was five and my sister Rhea was seven, we had played outside all day and really worn ourselves out. We always had our baths and Mamaw loved to comb out our long hair before we went to bed. My sister and I both had hair down to our waists when we were little. So up in the bed we went and Mamaw told us a story before we would fall asleep, dreaming sweet dreams of another day of play ahead of us…

I remember thinking I was sick in the middle of the night, but I must have been dreaming.  And then I faintly remember my little tummy hurting and coughing and feeling sick again. But I drifted back off to sleep for a second time. The next thing I know Rhea is screaming and pushing at me, she is hysterical and I am trying to wake up, not sure at all what is going on. Mamaw is hurrying around, the light has come on, the covers are being pulled back…oh no…I wasn’t dreaming…Rhea is still giving off this ear-piercing scream, “Maaamawww!!!”

And this time I am not dreaming, I really was sick in the middle of the night and she has every right to be upset. Because since I did not wake up and instead rolled over and went back to sleep, everything that “came up” went exactly where you are thinking it went…mostly in Rhea’s long and beautiful hair!

Needless to say the next few hours were spent washing two little girls’ hair, which was a much longer process in the middle sixties! I know for sure Mamaw Cammie didn’t have a blow dryer so we would have either taken turns underneath her big and bulky hair dryer or we went back to bed with a wet head.

It is a miracle that my big sister even speaks to me today after all the trauma my brothers and I put her through. This one was pretty awful but she does get even…and that my friends, is another story, for another day…

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Day 17, (or 5) Friday: A favorite photo of yourself and why

Sweet Jenni at www.storyofmylifetheblog.blogspot.com issued a fun challenge to bloggers to blog Every Single Day in May and she supplied the topics for all 31 days. Yep, I’m behind, but there are no rules, and no blog police come knocking if you miss, skip, or mess up. So, hey, I’m in!

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Day 17, Friday: A favorite photo of yourself and why

Jenni’s Blogging Challenge sure has caused a lot of reminiscing the last few days! When I saw the topic for today I knew the one I wanted to go searching for. It’s always been a favorite of mine. It’s the last family shot before I was married and it was taken by The Sweetheart. He was a photography buff and even had a wedding photography business for several years after we were first married.

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But there are so many more reasons that I love this particular portrait.

The Brady Bunch Effect. Yeah, we have it going on. We just “scream” the 70’s! Cowl necks, turtlenecks, long wing collars, and corduroys. I just loved that little gray vest and skirt in the picture, one of my favorites. Groovy, man.

Family. There is nothing like it. This was the end of years of living under the same roof, sharing meals at the same table. Fights, squabbles, and endless “He said, she said…” But that is what makes up a family. When my brothers were young they could have the best fights! But if someone else tries to pick on one of them they would come to each other’s defense in a minute.

I remember one time my sister and I were washing dishes together. Boy, were we made at each other for something. I have no idea what it was. We were probably 10 and 12 or 12 and 14 at the time. But we couldn’t make any noise because Mom and Dad were sitting in the family room. So we were having a “silent fight”! One of us grabbed a steak knife and tried to slice the other’s hand, it’s been so long now I don’t remember who did what. (When she reads this story she may regain her memory quickly!)

To retaliate, one of us tried to hold the other’s hand under hot water. Un-BEE-LEEVE-Able! Finally, we started giggling. We weren’t very vicious. Actually, I cannot remember too many physical battles between the two of us at all. But that one stands out today and always makes me LOL. Family.

Seasons. An old one was fading for me and a new one was just beginning. I was about to say, “I Do” to The Sweetheart and become a Mrs. Forever. Looking back I can’t believe how young I was. Of course you couldn’t have told me that then! My kids today have told me that at least 100 times. But it did work for us, we were happy, we did finally grow up, we stayed together, we loved each other and we loved God.

I didn’t leave my family, I gained another one. It’s amazing how close the two families have been over the years and for that I am thankful.

Parents. They have always been in the picture. No matter where I have been they have been there for me. Through thick and thin they have supported us, loved us and helped us however they could. They have adored our children and been a very vital part of their lives.

All of this from a portrait that I had to dig out of another storage box. It has weathered at least nine moves and this last one cost it a little bit. But that is what it is all about. Weathering the storms and staying together.

Families do that for each other. They endure, they persevere, they persist, and stick it out, and knowing in the end each will be there for the other.

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Most Embarrassing Moment…Oh Dear God, Not Now!

oh noSweet Jenni at www.storyofmylifetheblog.blogspot.com issued a fun challenge to bloggers to blog Every Single Day in May and she supplied the topics for all 31 days. Yep, I’m behind, but there are no rules, and no blog police come knocking if you miss, skip, or mess up. So, hey, I’m in!

Day 15, (or 3) Wednesday: Most embarrassing moment (s). Spill.

As a Pastor’s wife, you try to be all things to all people, all of the time. You must always say the right thing. You definitely better know when to keep your mouth closed.

You must wear the right clothes; walk just right, sit just right, and even smell just right. Too much perfume might make someone nauseous.

You smile at just the right time. You nod and shake your head appropriately.

You say that everyone’s baby is adorable, yes, everyone’s baby is adorable. Bless their little heart.

You make sure you shake everyone’s hand, every Sunday. Someone might be offended. You even stand outside of the bathrooms to make sure you haven’t missed anyone. It is that important.

You are the Pastor’s wife. Your husband is the Pastor. You must not embarrass the Pastor.

You make sure you play the right song at the right time in the right key at just the right tempo. Because you are the Pastor’s wife and your husband is the Pastor and you must not embarrass the Pastor.

One Sunday morning, this wonderful Pastor had preached his most beautiful sermon. He had the congregation stand, the musicians come, and he was still beckoning the sinner to “come home”. You could hear the saints begin to pray and softly weep, fighting for the very souls of those who were knocking at the Gates of … well, you know…

The mood was somber, prayerful, souls hung in the balance. I flipped on the keyboard and turned around to get my notebook. This was going to be one time I wish I had chosen OnSong and my iPad!

As I sat back down on the piano bench I heard a “click, click, click” and then the loudest rendition of “Jingle Bells” I believe I have ever heard in my life!

I looked behind me at the drummer, Kyle, I thought “What in the world!” And then over at my son, Korey, who was our worship leader, it was all happening so fast and oddly, so slowly, like a bad dream. Korey just had this sick look on his face.

Then my eyes met his…the Pastor…and I realized it was ME! I had hit a button on the keyboard with my notebook and the rest is history. Most Embarrassing Moment History.

What do you do with a situation like that one? My Pastor smiled, looked over at the keyboard player and said, “Well, honey, I think we will just call it a night.” And everyone finally let go of the laughter that they were trying so hard to hold in! There was no point in trying to drag anyone in to Heaven now. If they hadn’t come yet they weren’t going to come!

If you know me, you know I am the type to apologize for everything at least ten times or more. I felt bad about it more than embarrassed. I was afraid I was surely keeping someone from entering the Pearly Gates!

But that handsome Pastor assured me all was well and that even God probably laughed at that one.

And as a Pastor’s wife, you believe everything the Pastor says…Amen.