This is a #FiveMinuteFriday post of a different nature. Coincidentally (are there coincidences with God?) this week’s word prompt is Hope. I trust you will be blessed by the life of my friend, Carl and his unwavering Hope.
“If in Christ we have hope in this life only, we are of all people most to be pitied.” 1 Corinthians 15:19 ESV.
Today we are traveling to sit with a family, who without a miracle will say their final “Goodbye’s” to their husband, dad, brother, son and friend. Diagnosed just a year ago with a brain tumor, Carl has fought hard and held on to his faith.
We first met this man over ten years ago when we assumed the pastorate of the church he attended. Carl was blessed with a most beautiful family. His wife Cinda, and four of the most adorable kids born to one family: Jessica, Ridge, Tyler and Spencer were some of the best behaved, polite and considerate kids I had ever encountered. Of course boys will be boys and if one of them didn’t give their parents fits every once in a while we would have thought something was wrong! They have all grown up to be most impressive teenagers and young adults.
Carl loved to talk and he was very educated. Cinda would pull his coattails and try to hurry him along but Carl would be stuck on a subject, an important subject to him, and he wasn’t ready to go until he had told you all he knew.
One thing I remember about Carl was his Hope. He had Hope that his kids would grow up to serve God, stay in the Church and be a vital part, not just sit on a pew. He had Hope that the local church would grow and he worked hard to see that it did, he drove the Sunday School bus, did odd jobs around the church when necessary, and served as sound technician regularly…we all know that is a thankless job.
But Carl could handle criticism, everyone else was wrong, he was right!
Carl was always coming up with a new and unique way for the church to raise money. From sending kids to camps and conventions or a project in the church building, he was on it. Carl made (and sold!) sno cones, bloomin’ onions, cotton candy, elephant ears, funnel cakes and much, much more. He would set up at a grocery store, festivals like the local Chautauqua, and even Wal-Mart. He could have been putting the money away for his kids’ college tuition or other personal uses but instead he was out there, with his kids, teaching them the importance of working for the Kingdom.
It wasn’t just about raising funds either. They were always looking for ways to impact the community: enter Angel Food Ministries. Carl and Cinda and all four of their children would come early in the morning, once a month, to box up grocery staples for others in town. They took care of everything, and because they we’re involved, their extended family would be there as well. They were influential without even realizing it.
Carl also had Hope that no matter how crazy the world became (I would love to have heard his take on the SCOTUS decision and countless other changes we are seeing) he knew this wasn’t our final destination. He lived for two things: to see Jesus face-to-face and make sure his entire family was standing around the throne with him.
For the last year Carl’s family has held on to Hope. He has been to Mexico for experimental treatment where he left quite an impression on the way there and back. I was reading his Facebook timeline, where so many are leaving their thoughts and prayers, and came across this testimony from the desk clerk of the hotel where Carl and Cinda stayed while on their way to Mexico. Jamie Manning Sheets sums up Carl best I think:
“This man is one of the strongest Christian warriors I’ve ever met. His love for the Lord never wavered; he was only concerned for his family. His effect on people was so powerful that I’ve had guests come back to the hotel & continue to ask for updates on this wonderful man. Carl, I pray for one of God’s many miracles, but I know that either way you will continue to walk with the Lord. Godspeed my friend…. I thank you for touching my life & so many others, & being such a powerful example of one of God’s finest.”
I echo that today for this giant of a man. I am praying for a miracle that I know he will receive one way or another. I know God is able to heal him completely but I also know the greater Hope isn’t here on this terra firma, he lived for an eternal Hope. He has been able to share this Hope with countless people through his illness this past year as is evident by the testimonies of others. I am sure Carl considers that a great honor and privilege.
“We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” 1 Thessalonians 1:3 NIV.
Work produced by faith
Labor prompted by love
Endurance inspired by Hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.
This verse could have been Carl’s mantra. I pray it will become mine and yours today.
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